Common Meeting Personalities

We’ve all been in that meeting where personalities clash, discussions derail, or some voices never get heard.

The six common meeting personalities sums it up:

» The Dominator: loves control, shows authority, shuts others down.

Tip: Acknowledge their input early and then redirect. Structure helps.

» The Dependent: agreeable, hesitant, often has great ideas but low confidence.

Tip: Encourage participation and validate their contributions.

» The Disinterested: distracted, late, mentally elsewhere.

Tip: Re-engage them with direct questions or relevant roles in the discussion.

» The Expert: challenges everyone, the “know-it-all.”

Tip: Respect their knowledge but frame it as a contribution, not correction.

» The Conversationalist: talks too much or goes off-topic.

Tip: Gently steer back with “Let’s park that and revisit later.”

» The Complainer: sees the flaws in everything.

Tip: Listen first, then pivot to solutions like: “What would you suggest?”

Meetings succeed when facilitation matches personality. It is not about control, it is about creating space where every voice adds value.